Pathways
The shape of the work changes depending on what you need. The intent doesn't.
Every pathway is one-on-one and built around your actual life, not a curriculum, not a formula. We move at your pace. We go deep enough that you feel the shift. And we don't leave a session until you can name it.
If you're not sure which pathway is right for you, start with a Compass Call. That's what it's for.
Every pathway runs on the same method.
What changes is the depth, the length, and where we start.
ROOT
We get you grounded and honest about where you actually are. Not the story you tell about it. The truth underneath it.
We find the thing underneath the thing. The pattern, belief, or old response that has been running the show longer than you have noticed.
REVEAL
We shift it, using whatever the moment actually calls for: coaching, NLP, reframing, nervous system work. The tool serves the shift, not the other way around.
REALIGN
RISE
We turn the internal shift into real decisions and real action, and we integrate it so it holds without needing me.
S T A R T H E R E
The Compass Call
One focused hour. No long commitment, no pressure. Just an honest conversation to help you get clear on where you are, what matters most right now, and what your next move might be.
Have a question first?
Not sure if this is your kind of space, or want to ask something before you book? Tell me a little about what’s going on. I read every one of these myself.
Booked a Compass Call and want to keep going?
Your $150 is credited toward whatever pathway we choose together.
$150
60 Minutes
One-Time Session
Good for:
A decision that could use a second perspective
A season of transition, growth, or “I’m not sure yet”
Getting a real feel for the work before going deeper
G O D E E P E R
Longer Pathways
When the work asks for more than one conversation. Each pathway below is a different shape: different length, different focus, different starting point. Read whichever feels closest, and the listing page will tell you the rest. Booked a Compass Call and want to keep going? Your $150 is credited toward whatever pathway we choose together.
S H O R T , F O C U S E D W O R K
For when you need a reset, not a renovation.
You got knocked off center and you need to get back to it, not overhaul your whole life.
A shorter coaching relationship for a specific shift: a decision you need to make, a season you need to get through, a recalibration after something hard. We get you back to your own center, and clear about what to do from there.
Find Your Ground
T H E D E E P E R W O R K
Your life looks fine. You’re just not really in it.
Nothing is wrong, exactly. It all just blurs, and you cannot remember the last time something lit you up.
For the person who checked out of their own life without ever deciding to. Nothing’s wrong, exactly. The job’s fine, the relationships are fine, the days are fine. They just blur together, and you can’t remember the last time something actually lit you up.
More Than Fine
For the patterns underneath the patterns.
You keep running the same loop, and understanding it has not been enough to break it.
A deeper engagement when you're ready to look at the loops you've been running for a long time. The ones that were driving the car before you knew there was a car. We work on the unconscious stuff gently, at your pace, with real strategy alongside it.
Inner Compass
For the work that lives underneath the strategy.
You are less pulled by the plan and more by the deeper questions of who you are and what you are here for.
For the person drawn less to the plan and more to the deeper questions. Who you are. What you actually believe. What you’re here for, and how to live like you mean it. This is the intuitive, soul-led side of the work, where we slow down enough to hear what you already know.
Deep Roots
B U I L T A R O U N D
A S P E C I F I C W O R L D
Honest work for men ready to stop circling.
You are a man who is tired of circling the same things, and you want it straight, with no bypass.
Direct work for men who want alignment between who they are, what they're building, and how they show up: at home, at work, in their own head. Grounded, specific, no spiritual bypass.
Straight Line
For leaders carrying more than the org chart shows.
You are leading something, and the real weight of it never shows up in the org chart.
A coaching relationship for founders, executives, and small business owners. We work on the inner architecture: how you make decisions, hold your team, and stay rooted when things get loud. Strategy and self in the same room.
Aligned & Open
For the woman who's done all the right things and still feels muted.
You did all the right things and still feel muted, and you want the color back.
Two pathways here: a 6-month recalibration and a 12-month evolution. Identity-level work for the version of you on the other side of the next chapter. We bring the color back, and we bring you back.
Full Color
T H E F U L L C O N T A I N E R
The full coaching relationship.
This chapter asks for more than a tune-up, and you are ready to meet the version of you who has been waiting.
For the chapter of life that asks for more than a tune-up. Identity work. Leadership work. Nervous system work. The version of you that's been waiting to come forward. We make space for her, and we build the life that fits her.
Roots 2 Rise
K E E P I T A L I V E
You did the deep work. This keeps it alive.
You have done the deep work, and you want a steady touchpoint so you do not quietly drift back.
For the person who’s come through a longer container and isn’t ready to fully let go. You’ve done the real work. You don’t need the full intensity anymore, but you don’t want to quietly drift back to old patterns either. This is the steady touchpoint that keeps you honest and keeps you moving.
Stay Rooted
“L'Anja doesn't just coach you, she sees you. She has this extraordinary gift for cutting through the noise and landing on the thing that actually matters, often before you've even fully articulated it yourself.”
- Abby S.
Not sure which one?
Find the sentence that sounds like you.
I got knocked off center and need to get back to myself.
Nothing is wrong exactly. Everything feels muted.
I keep running the same loop.
I am pulled toward the deeper questions of who I am and what I am here for.
I am tired of circling the same things and want it straight.
I did all the right things and still want the color back.
I am leading something, and the real weight never shows up on the org chart.
This chapter asks for more than a tune-up.
I have done the deep work and want a steady touchpoint.
If none of them quite fit, that is exactly what the Compass Call is for.
Scholarship Spots
I set aside a small number of fully pro bono scholarship spots, because I do not want cost to be the reason someone who is ready for this work cannot do it. If that is you, reach out and tell me a little about where you are. These spots are limited, and I fill them as I can.
